WHY PEOPLE REJECTED YOU?

Why be VERY DISCREET AND BE HYPOCRITE???!!!

When in fact you are lonely...???

Call it a planned meet up for a brief or casual sex at the moment, here are some things that you should be carefully aware of and MUST CHECK:

1. Your Outfit

Fine. You are wearing your most favorite color of a shirt, just make sure they aren't blouses for girls. You fool. =)

2. Your Walk and Mannerisms

You'll never know from a far that he's already observing you the way you move. It is fine to be honest with what you are wearing, but did he tell you his true outfit as well? One way eye ball. Your gestures can be fine with others depending on their preferences.

3. Your Hygiene

A simple shirt is fine regardless of the brand. But wait, did you brush your teeth? Do you regularly visit your dentist for some check ups? A black spot on your teeth shows clearly that you can't afford to maintain yourself yet, you have the money to spend in sucking those smelly dicks.

Smell Your Armpits. It is true that you could be immune with your own smell but when people start covering their noses when you pass by or in front of you aside from frowning their faces, you should ring the alarm.

Your Fingernails. Unless you're a hunk farmer and the two of you met at the rice paddies while he's plowing his field this is fine. Cut them clean.

Your Skin. Don't engage in a meet up when you have eruptions on your face or neck. The staphylococcus bacteria of your acne is a sure eyestrain and poisonous too when licked and ingested.

Your Ear Lobes. Make sure that there are no soap leftovers. This might be mistaken as your ear wax. Wipe them away and rinse thoroughly.

Get some skin lotion to maintain your skin. Being gay is stressful and tiring. We age too fast so invest in delaying your wrinkles. If you could afford some natural Vitamin E then you may take them.

4. Your Hair

Indeed our crowning glory. Skinhead style is very safe. Choose hair colors that will only match your skin. Blonde? Stop rivaling Madonna or Lady Gaga or forever be a gaga.

5. Your Voice

Don't wonder why he didn't give you a callback after an abrupt and intentional disconnection. You simply failed his test because you sounded like a screaming faggot. No matter that you look like a hunk or possessing some handsome face. A girlie voice can surely break a future casual sex.

6. Your Claims

You told him you were this, you were that and looked like a Greek god? Come on... you're just fooling yourself. What a waste of time, money and effort!

7. Your Accessories

We all know that not everyone is capable of wearing, or justify that they can carry or wear properly those things. If you aren't sure how to use them? Ask and consult or just don't! Or be another Donald Duck.

8. You Lied!

There is nothing sweeter than being honest. Set your minimum expectations to avoid frustrations. Standards and tastes in looking for sex partners vary. Some young guys prefer older men; some guys find married men hotter; some guys prefer feminine looking; some guys prefer gym bots and rippled muscles; some guys prefer as good looking like them; some prefer tall ones while others prefer dwarfs nor chubs and hairy.

Describe to them your physical looks in advance and don't brag that you look like a movie actor, yet... you did not specify that your actor look a like was actually an actress or someone who's usually fed to the wild animals of the zoo.

In case you were successful in having sex with your kind of guy for the very first encounter, but you are still possessing those negatives presently? Thank yourself, the guy was just kind and professional not to turn you down first hand. Don't expect for another round. If he doesn't text you back, replies to your emails or call you back? YOU ARE SIMPLY REJECTED AND WAS VERY DISMAYED AND WAS TOO SHY TO TELL YOU. Move on!

Oh one more thing... If the eyeball who "one-wayed" you suddenly communicate after a few minutes or hours with you? Saying I'm sorry? Or his cell phone suddenly went dead? You could be lucky. Otherwise, the two of you will lead to a barrage of #$%#@*&^ texts full of F words or curses you wouldn't want to hear nor wish you weren't born as gay.

Reality Checks

We are called gays, bisexuals, homosexuals, trans whatever branding you prefer. The degree of femininity is very obvious and will always appear unknowingly and unguarded. The discreet ones can't escape from this as well. Their girly inclinations could show in some of their endeavors and hobbies. Be it in the field of the arts or whenever they are with their true friends and family.

The very discreet guys are very good actors in front of you. How many times that the discreet guys I had sex with dismayed me a lot of times? I saw some if not most of them in gay bars and street parties of the Metro wearing those dashing gay mannequin outfits. I even saw some in their unguarded moments belting their vocal cords out like Regine Velasquez, Chaka Khan, Donna Summer, Mariah Carey or Diana Ross. I saw some who can pirouette much better than a Russian ballerina.

How many hunks I had sex with who sounded like pussycats when they are about to cum?

Funny things may arrive after a few minutes of casual and brief "macho and manly" sex, surprisingly after, the two of you start exchanging gay lingo words and even scream like fags and started to share your funny stories and even exchange numbers of your previous guys.

For those who aren't aware that they are indeed a part of our community, try asking some good friends. Ask them. How do I look like? Do I look so gay or bakla? If they smile and nod at you. They are your true friends. =)

Now, why are you smiling? Guilty? =)

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